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on Church 'Apologies'

5/13/2022

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I continue to be flabbergasted (that’s the polite way of putting it) by the attempts of Churches to ‘apologise’ to LGBTIQ+ people whilst continuing to ignore our voices, maintaining shame, and hurting us afresh. The latest astonishing ‘apology’ is by the General Synod of the Anglican Church in Australia - actually ’deploring’ activity which it had itself just demonstrated.
NO - this kind of ‘apology’ is not acceptable and represents a mockery of the deep understanding of costly repentance and reconciliation in the Christian tradition.
Meanwhile, the Uniting Church - with more credibility but with significant holes in its LGBTIQ+ ‘inclusion’, including a current low level of trans awareness and engagement - has also been pursuing an apology process. This is a much better concept but one in which no transgender people have been included in the ‘apology’ group! (so there’s a first apology to make)
A few obvious starters therefore for such ventures:
* ‘Nothing about us without us’
* Cheap grace betrays the Gospel
* Reparations matter


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trans faith @ Sydney Mardi Gras

2/25/2021

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Wonderful to have Sorèl Coward, my dear friend and fellow Anglican priest, sharing some of her story as a keynote contribution to this year’s Sydney Mardi Gras - another beautiful expression of the rich diversity, generosity and developing life of our fabulous Australian queer community. 
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towards genuinely affirming church leadership: wake up and smell the roses!

1/15/2021

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For (too) many years, with others, I've coaxed and cajoled.  Sadly though, at this transition point, I’m going to have to say it clearly once more - many ‘affirming’ church leaders truly frustrate me and are major problematic parts of the continuing ‘issues’ that churches and wider society have with sexuality & gender   Individually some church leaders can be quite kindly in disposition, as well as otherwise gifted, but as a body they are a key element of the (straight) problem we have, alongside the bigots they refuse to face down publicly.   It also sometimes feels like they are stuck in a time warp.   For two things stand out...

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one Papal step forward

10/23/2020

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With thanks to the terrific Fr Peter Maher, it was good yesterday to share in our national Equal Voices' welcome of Pope Francis' support for 'same sex' civil unions (see our media release below, and here) - in itself a very small step of LGBTIQ+ affirmation, but historically highly significant and very important within the largest and most powerful Church in the world's largest religion. It is also a small ray of light in the face of reaction (not least recently in the Anglican Church of Australia).
I have to say however that I do remain quite frustrated, not only by the slowness of fuller Christian affirmations, but also by the continued use of the outdated binary term 'same sex' - which has been unhelpfully extended by many (like the leading Anglican Australian bishop aka Primate) to cover relationships like my own 'same gender' marriage. Trans and non binary relationships need to be recognised properly, not just lumped in with binary 'same sex', whilst transphobia is at stake in religious limiting of relationships too. It is multi-dimensional 'equal marriage' we're seeking everywhere, for the diversity of loving human relationships who seek this - not other clumsy conceptions.
  However one step forward is better than nothing :-) ...

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a call to affirm transgender people - standing with Sorèl

10/6/2020

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In the face of wider societal backlash, a fellow transgender Anglican priest in Australia (the Revd Sorèl Coward - pictured with my wife and I above) has been refused a license to officiate - this at a time when trans people need all the help we can get, and when we were explicitly excluded from national church ‘same sex marriage’ discussions (the ostensible reason for Sorèl’s rejection),   This is such a confused decision by the Archbishop of Adelaide (who is also the Primate, i.e senior Australian bishop, of the Australian Anglican Church) that it is hard to know where to begin or end with the questions it raises.  But now it is in the public sphere, I at least will ask some of them - and I hope as many people as possible will do so too.   It is a direct consequence of official Church refusal to engage appropriately with the complexity of human gender and sexuality, and how little gender and sexually diverse people are even allowed to contribute our expert wisdom and experience.  It is potentially another step to narrow sectarianism and such sad treatment of a lovely person who, ironically, has both the professional expertise and personal experience to help the Church grow in these matters. The affirming model of trans care is clearly vital to anyone with the eyes to see - and this certainly doesn’t involve using people’s long established loving marriages (blessed in Church for God’s sake!) against them.  It is more than time for the Church and others to do all that is possible to address the deficit of transgender care and celebration.

Initial coverage of this novel problematising of transgender Anglicans can be found here and here.  My wife and I, as married Anglican priest in  good standing, have written today to the Archbishop of Adelaide - a letter which can be found below (or downloaded here).



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married and trans - no questions to answer

9/29/2020

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I was told this morning that David Ould (the vocal Senior Associate Minister of the Anglican Cathedral of Parramatta) is once more writing about myself and my marriage and making statements which are a mixture of provocation and exaggeration. This is despite David never having met me, never mind talked to me about this or other things.  I will not post a link as I do not like to encourage an audience for his blog.  I do wish to state however that several of his statements about my Archbishop and diocese are wrong or misleading and his words should thus be treated as malicious. Sadly - as his column freely admits - such aggression is a consequence of confusion caused by the Australian Anglican Primate's recent action towards another priest (who also happens to be trans, just as some of us have other differing characteristics), particularly the Archbishop's misuse of the term 'same-sex marriage'...

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renewing rites of transition

7/6/2020

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One of the most profound things about being a priest is sharing in great transition times in all kinds of people’s lives. Sometimes these are also marked in special ways at special times and/or places. Sadly, whilst they were much better at this in former ages (including adapting ‘pagan’ practices), Christians recently have often narrowed, and even exclusified, our human ‘rites of passage’ - with beautiful exceptions, like Dorothy McRae-McMahon, who have actively explored words and symbols for a much greater range of vital human experiences. In one sense ‘holy holding’ of transgender experiences is part of this, though particularly gorgeous! 😻🧚

I've shared in other similar occasions in recent times, but I’m really looking forward to this coming Sunday - partly as a contribution to the renewed unfolding of divine presence and naming, encouraging others to the same (seriously its not hard to do!), but above all for the opportunity to lead our parish in celebrating a beautiful person (and increasingly beloved friend) in our Milton Anglican community.  The eye shadow may or may not be on show - and glitter is sadly out due to COVID-19 - but there will certainly be dancing in the heart of God. 💃🙏🦋

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our marriage - one of God's gentle prophetic jokes?

6/22/2020

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As my wife Penny and I approach our 35th wedding anniversary next month, we are increasingly aware of how our marriage has become one of God's delightful little prophetic jokes to prompt deeper loving awareness.  The other day, for instance, we went to a shop in Brisbane to see if we could buy some dresses for our upcoming renewal of vows event.  I found a splendid one I liked quite quickly and the shop assistant asked me if it was for a special occasion.  'Yes', I said, 'Penny and I are renewing our vows in a few weeks time.  It will be our 35th wedding anniversary'.  The assistant was very professional and just murmured 'how lovely'.  For the next few minutes however it was very evident that the cogs were whirring in her brain.  Clearly I 'passed' more than well enough for her to be considerably puzzled how two women could be marking 35 years of official marriage.  Maybe she wondered if we came from some country she hadn't heard of which had quietly adopted marriage equality decades before others.  Perhaps she pondered if there was some special lesbian rite she had never imagined.  Whatever the case, as for others in society, and certainly within church circles, our fully sanctioned and richly flourishing marriage had stirred the pot.  Once again Penny and I were a gentle loving challenge to preconceptions and an invitation to more expansive relationships and celebration of life...


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Revealing the rainbow nature of marriage – reflecting on our 'trans wedded' life together

9/4/2019

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‘I didn’t marry a gender. I married a person.’
- this has always been a truth of our marriage, before and after Josephine came out as a transgender woman.  Just as God ‘looks on the heart’ not ‘outward appearance’ (1 Samuel 16.7), our gender and sexuality are not the core of our lasting relationship. What matters is the love we have for one another, part of God’s greater love. In that way, ‘rainbow marriage’ is also a gift for all...


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Loving our neighbour has no religious exemptions

8/17/2019

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I speak today as both a proud member of our LGBTIQA+ community, and also as a dedicated person of faith, indeed as an Anglican priest.  I do so, because people like me are typically erased, our lives and voices ignored.  Yet we queer people of faith do exist! - and we are increasingly seeking to be visible.  For our very existence gives lie to the monstrous misuse of religion for political ends.  We suffer particularly profoundly from religious discrimination.  We do not want religious exemptions which hurt us and others, and betray the heart of who we are.  We also know that the majority of our fellow Australians of faith agree with us, as we saw in that dreadful postal survey.  So we’ve tried to lobby, spoken to Government inquiries, sought to be part of desperately needed change.  Yet, as queer people of faith, our rights to religious expression are seldom recognised...


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